I don’t remember much about Thanksgiving when I was a child. Odd, I think, but memories are so random for us all, so maybe not so odd. By the time I was ten, death had whittled down our extended family, so it was not a huge event with great multitudes of people after that.
I do remember mom cooking most of the day. I remember me eating dough not used for pie crusts. And I remember me and some friends always finding time for a touch-football game down at the park, no matter the weather.
Oddly, when I have relapsed in my sobriety, it has always been Thanksgiving. I’m not sure why, but it is something I’m aware of, so I’m extra vigilant this time of year.
And that’s about it! Christmas holds many more memories for me as the years accumulate. Christmas was always a grand affair, what seemed to be a two-week, non-stop barrage of activities and traditions. I find great comfort in traditions, and now Bev and I are making our own traditions, together and with combined families, and that is all well and good and as it should be.
The little kid in me surfaces at Christmastime. It’s really the only time of the year when I see that little rascal, and it’s nice to say hello again to him and have him remind me of the magic inherent in certain situations in our lives. And I think we all need that touch of magic, that feeling of suspended reality when for one day, or perhaps several days, the worries and stress disappear and we can just enjoy friends, and family, and not be burdened by the weight of life.
So that’s my plan in December this year . . . to simply allow the magic to return. As I approach seventy, I am very much aware that the window for magic is shrinking, so I suspect that each Christmas, from this point onward, will be more precious than the one previous.
And that is something to look forward to, for sure!
That’s how I view writing, by the way . . . magic! We all, all seven billion of us, work from basically the same alphabet, the same number of words available, but only a true writer can take those meager tools and produce magic.
I hope you remember that the next time you sit down to write . . . you are a magician and what you do is special! A side note: I recently received an email from a complete stranger telling me how much an article I wrote about alcoholism helped them in dealing with their alcoholic spouse.
Magic!
Important!
Bill
“Helping writers to spread their wings and fly.”